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Being proactive means taking responsibility for our actions, attitudes, and impact on others — instead of reacting to external circumstances. It is the first and most fundamental habit of personal leadership, as it empowers us to choose our responses rather than being driven by emotions, conditions, or the behavior of others.
In youth work, being proactive is about helping young people recognize that they are not passive recipients of life’s events, but active agents of change. It’s about understanding that while we can’t always control what happens to us, we can always choose how we respond.
The Circle of Influence activity had made this visible. You mapped out the people who affected your lives—family, friends, work, and learning. By identifying positive and negative influences, you reflected on who supported your growth and creativity.
This shift from reactive to proactive thinking nurtures self-awareness, responsibility, and empowerment. It supports the development of resilience and initiative — qualities that are essential for personal growth, social participation, and creative leadership in youth work. Proactive people recognise that they are “response-able”. They focus on solutions instead of the problem.
How to grow your proactivity attitude and skills?
- Anticipate and take action: When in the area where you live you are upset about the trash at the street, take action and daily get 3 items of trash from the street to throw them away properly. Perhaps you can even start a community via social media in your area that is doing the same?
- Embrace your responsibility and influence: Everybody has influence on something and someone, on a big or a small scale. Be bold and use it.
- Participate actively: When taking part in something, do it with the best you have in you.
- Hold yourself accountable: When something goes wrong, even when it was not your responsibility, think about where you could have contributed to let it be a success.
- Surround yourself with the right people: Everybody needs a group of people around them with different personalities and skills to get feedback, smart solutions, strength when you need it, knowledge about that which you don’t know yourself. And be a role model and critical friend yourself for the ones around you.
- Focus on solutions: When you focus on something, you will go towards that direction. When you want to meet the chief of education from your region, then think about ways to get that meeting done. And if you brainstorm with the right people about the how, it’s sure that you will find several solutions.
- Put yourself in other men's shoes to see their perspectives: When organising an activity, step in the shoes of the people who join. What would they need to know, what will they expect, what do they need, what is their background, etc.? What do you learn from this to organise your activity?
- When you go through a failure, check out what you can learn from it: Failure is not the same as failing. People who have achieved a lot, have made many mistakes and learned from them. It gave them knowledge, experience and skills. So when you feel miserable about something where you made a mistake, think about what you have learned from it.